Ruined Our Family Lives

Hi, I was with a person forced to register for 5 years. We have two kids together in California. It is really tough to have kids with some one who has to register. CPS will take your babies over it. My baby’s father’s mom also hates me for getting with him and some one told my O.B. the hospital, all the doctors. I was actually a caregiver 10 years until my family passed away. Some one messaged and told what was left of my family also. My ex’s mom has always wanted my daughters since the day she found out I was pregnant. My ex also is autistic. We both have disabilities. Because of his past both my daughters got taken. The doctors and hospital nurses made up bad horrible things about me the mother to take my babies. Especially because they were female newborns. My ex’s mom lied about me to the hospital to take the babies and told them his past. He is in denial what his narcissist mother is doing. I got one baby back for 2 years (my oldest), but his mother instigated fights and told him not to help me at our last house. We had 2 houses together and got evicted from both because of his past. I fought the eviction 3 times. We were homeless and pregnant over his past. So bad I was throwing up blood while pregnant every single day. Our house I got judged for over a year because of his past and my daughter did. None of the kids would play with my daughter when she was 1 years old and under and judged my innocent daughter. We hid for a year. I finally met a neighbor who was once on probation and she was a grandma to 5 kids and she let my daughter play with them finally after a year of hiding and having no friends. After that we lost the place because of slumlords judging us and discriminating against us. After that we were homeless again because of his past and I lost my second baby for no reason at mercy again. Now I have no babies. He is blood related also and it makes no sense. CPS is trying to end his rights over his past. The incident happened when he was a lot younger and one time only. He should have been charged as a kid but got an adult charge. Something is seriously wrong with his family for doing this to us. Now because I am homeless they will not give me my babies back but will not offer housing help. I am no longer together with him. But still need help and still get severely judged if any one remembers us together. I also know several other people forced to register who never did the crime and still got charged. There needs to be a fix to this broken system. Thank you for reading my story. I have lost 2 kids and 2 houses and cannot get HUD with the baby’s father. He has social security income but I have none without the kids.

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